Chapter: The father or the guardian cannot give a virgin or matron in marriage without her consent
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission." The people asked, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! How can we know her permission?" He said, "Her silence (indicates her permission). - Sahih:Al Bukhari:5136 (islam)
-Who is consenting in place of the Virgin?
- Is there a limit for marriage?
- Is there a limit for sex?
Chapter: (Tricks) in marriage
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A virgin should not be married till she is asked for her consent; and the matron should not be married till she is asked whether she agrees to marry or not." It was asked, "O Allah's Apostle! How will she (the virgin) express her consent?" He said, "By keeping silent." Some people said that if a virgin is not asked for her consent and she is not married, and then a man, by playing a trick presents two false witnesses that he has married her with her consent and the judge confirms his marriage as a true one, and the husband knows that the witnesses were false ones, then there is no harm for him to consummate his marriage with her and the marriage is regarded as valid. - Sahih:Al Bukhari:6968 (islam)
-Is it acceptable today?
- Is Mohamed the best example for today, or ever?
- Was he a pedophile?
Chapter: Seeking permission of a previously-married woman in words, and of a virgin by silence
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as having said:
A woman without a husband (or divorced or a widow) must not be married until she is consulted, and a virgin must not be married until her permission is sought. They asked the Prophet of Allah (ﷺ): How her (virgin's) consent can be solicited? He (the Holy Prophet) said: That she keeps silence. - Sahih:Muslim:1419a (islam)
-with the hadith who said the father pleasure is like Allah's Pleasure, how a young girl can refuse a marriage?
- Can you marry a baby?
- Why the ruling for sex is not limited in age but only on 'capability'?
- Why no hadith mentions clearly menstruation as a sign of maturity?
- Even so, is it ok to have sex or a baby at te first sign of puberty?
Chapter: Wrapping oneself up
It is related that Abu Hurayra said, "I never sae al-Hasan without my eyes overflowing with tears. That is because the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, went out one day and he found me in the mosque. He took my hand and I went along with him. He did not speak to me until we reached the market of Banu Qaynuqa'. He walked around it and looked. Then he left and I left with him until we reached the mosque. He sat down and wrapped himself in his garment. Then he said, 'Where is the little one? Call the little one to me.' Hasan came running and jumped into his lap. Then he put his hand in his beard. Then the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, opened his mouth and put his mouth in his mouth. Then he said, O Allah, I love him, so love him and the one who loves him!'" - Hasan:Adab:1183 (islam)
Chapter: Regarding The Guardian
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: The marriage of a woman who marries without the consent of her guardians is void. (He said these words) three times. If there is cohabitation, she gets her dower for the intercourse her husband has had. If there is a dispute, the sultan (man in authority) is the guardian of one who has none. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:2083 (islam)
-What if you are in love but your father hope to marry you to your cousin?
Chapter: What Has Been Related About: There Is No Marriage Except With A Wali
Abu Musa narrated that :
the Messenger of Allah said: "There is no marriage except with a Wali." - Sahih:Tirmidhi:1101 (islam)
-What is the penalty if you are in an invalid marriage?
- Would you be scourged?
- Is the husband forced to pay money if the marriage was consumed?
