Chapter: The father or the guardian cannot give a virgin or matron in marriage without her consent
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A matron should not be given in marriage except after consulting her; and a virgin should not be given in marriage except after her permission." The people asked, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! How can we know her permission?" He said, "Her silence (indicates her permission). - Sahih:Al Bukhari:5136 (islam)
-Who is consenting in place of the Virgin?
- Is there a limit for marriage?
- Is there a limit for sex?
Chapter: (Tricks) in marriage
Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A virgin should not be married till she is asked for her consent; and the matron should not be married till she is asked whether she agrees to marry or not." It was asked, "O Allah's Apostle! How will she (the virgin) express her consent?" He said, "By keeping silent." Some people said that if a virgin is not asked for her consent and she is not married, and then a man, by playing a trick presents two false witnesses that he has married her with her consent and the judge confirms his marriage as a true one, and the husband knows that the witnesses were false ones, then there is no harm for him to consummate his marriage with her and the marriage is regarded as valid. - Sahih:Al Bukhari:6968 (islam)
-Is it acceptable today?
- Is Mohamed the best example for today, or ever?
- Was he a pedophile?
Chapter: Seeking permission of a previously-married woman in words, and of a virgin by silence
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as having said:
A woman without a husband (or divorced or a widow) must not be married until she is consulted, and a virgin must not be married until her permission is sought. They asked the Prophet of Allah (ﷺ): How her (virgin's) consent can be solicited? He (the Holy Prophet) said: That she keeps silence. - Sahih:Muslim:1419a (islam)
-with the hadith who said the father pleasure is like Allah's Pleasure, how a young girl can refuse a marriage?
- Can you marry a baby?
- Why the ruling for sex is not limited in age but only on 'capability'?
- Why no hadith mentions clearly menstruation as a sign of maturity?
- Even so, is it ok to have sex or a baby at te first sign of puberty?
Chapter: Wrapping oneself up
It is related that Abu Hurayra said, "I never sae al-Hasan without my eyes overflowing with tears. That is because the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, went out one day and he found me in the mosque. He took my hand and I went along with him. He did not speak to me until we reached the market of Banu Qaynuqa'. He walked around it and looked. Then he left and I left with him until we reached the mosque. He sat down and wrapped himself in his garment. Then he said, 'Where is the little one? Call the little one to me.' Hasan came running and jumped into his lap. Then he put his hand in his beard. Then the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, opened his mouth and put his mouth in his mouth. Then he said, O Allah, I love him, so love him and the one who loves him!'" - Hasan:Adab:1183 (islam)
Chapter: Regarding The Guardian
Narrated Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: The marriage of a woman who marries without the consent of her guardians is void. (He said these words) three times. If there is cohabitation, she gets her dower for the intercourse her husband has had. If there is a dispute, the sultan (man in authority) is the guardian of one who has none. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:2083 (islam)
-What if you are in love but your father hope to marry you to your cousin?
Chapter: What Has Been Related About: There Is No Marriage Except With A Wali
Abu Musa narrated that :
the Messenger of Allah said: "There is no marriage except with a Wali." - Sahih:Tirmidhi:1101 (islam)
-What is the penalty if you are in an invalid marriage?
- Would you be scourged?
- Is the husband forced to pay money if the marriage was consumed?
Chapter: Consummation of marriage during the daytime without a marriage procession or lighting of fires
Narrated Aisha:
When the Prophet (ﷺ) married me, my mother came to me and made me enter the house (of the Prophet) and nothing surprised me but the coming of Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) to me in the forenoon. - Sahih:Al Bukhari:5160 (islam)
Chapter: (Tricks) in marriage
Narrated `Aisha:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "It is essential to have the consent of a virgin (for the marriage). I said, "A virgin feels shy." The Prophet; said, "Her silence means her consent." Some people said, "If a man falls in love with an orphan slave girl or a virgin and she refuses (him) and then he makes a trick by bringing two false witnesses to testify that he has married her, and then she attains the age of puberty and agrees to marry him and the judge accepts the false witness and the husband knows that the witnesses were false ones, he may consummate his marriage." - Sahih:Al Bukhari:6971 (islam)
Yaḥyā ibn Muḥammad and Sālim ibn ‘Abdullāh would marry off their virgin daughters without consulting them. Mālik said, “that is what is done among us about the marriage of virgins.” Mālik said, “A virgin has no right to her property until she enters her house and her state (competence, maturity, etc.) is known for sure.” - Fiqh:Muwatta:28.2-6 (islam)
A father can arrange the marriage of his virgin daughter without her permission even if she is beyond the age of puberty. It is up to him whether he consults her or not. [To whomever he wants for the dowry he wishes, even for less than a suitable dowry. He can give her choice, and it states in al-Jawahir and elsewhere that it is recommended that he ask her permission.] - Fiqh:Rissala:32.2a (islam)
GUARDIANS WHO MAY MARRY A VIRGINTO A MAN WITHOUT HER CONSENTGuardians are of two types, those whomay compel their female charges to marry someone,and those who may not.(1) The only guardians who may compeltheir charge to marry are a virgin bride's father orfather's father, compel meaning to marry her to asuitable match (def: m4) without her consent.(2) Those who may not compel her are notentitled to marry her to someone unless sheaccepts and gives her permission.Whenever the bride is a virgin, the father orfather's father may marry her to someone withouther permission, though it is recommended to askher permission if she has reached puberty. A virgin'ssilence is considered as permission.As for the nonvirgin of sound mind, no onemay marry her to another after she has reachedpuberty without her express permission, no matterwhether the guardian is the father, father'sfather, or someone else. - Fiqh:Umdat:m3.13 (islam)