Chapter: Manumitting One Who Was Born Out Of Zina
Narrated AbuHurayrah:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: The child of adultery is worst of the three. Abu Hurairah said: That I give a flog in the path of Allah (as a charity) is dearer to me than emancipating a child of adultery. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:3963 (islam)
-Why bearing the blame of adultery on the child?
Chapter: Whoever claims that somebody is his brother or his nephew
Narrated `Aisha:
Sa`d bin Abi Waqqas and 'Abu bin Zam`a had a dispute over a boy. Sa`d said, "O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! This (boy) is the son of my brother, `Utba bin Abi Waqqas who told me to be his custodian as he was his son. Please notice to whom he bears affinity." And 'Abu bin Zam`a said, "This is my brother, O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! He was born on my father's bed by his slave girl." Then the Prophet (ﷺ) looked at the boy and noticed evident resemblance between him and `Utba, so he said, "He (the toy) is for you, O 'Abu bin Zam`a, for the boy is for the owner of the bed, and the stone is for the adulterer. Screen yourself before the boy, O Sauda bint Zam`a." `Aisha added: Since then he had never seen Sauda. - Sahih:Al Bukhari:6765 (islam)
-Even if the child is the result of zina (fornication), the mother will keep him or her, but is it as an orphan, an adopted or a plain child?
- If the adulterer is not stoned by lack of witness, is he identify as the father of some sort?
- What will happen if you came home after 2 years of travel and you find your wife pregnant, is the child yours?
Chapter: The stone is for illegal sexual intercourse
Narrated `Aisha:
Sa`d bin Abi Waqqas and `Abd bin Zam`a quarrelled with each other (regarding a child). The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "The boy is for you, O `Abd bin Zam`a, for the boy is for (the owner) of the bed. O Sauda ! Screen yourself from the boy." The sub-narrator, Al-Laith added (that the Prophet (ﷺ) also said), "And the stone is for the person who commits an illegal sexual intercourse." - Sahih:Al Bukhari:6817 (islam)
Chapter: The child is for the bed and suspicion must be avoided
'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) reported:
Sa'd b. Abu Waqqas and Abd b. Zam'a (Allah be pleased with them) disputed with each other over a young boy. Sa'd said: Messenger of Allah, he is the son of my brother 'Utba b. Abu Waqqas as he made it explicit that he was his son. Look at his resemblance. Abd b. Zam'a said Messenger of Allah, he is my brother as he was born on the bed of my father from his slave-girl. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) looked at his resemblance and found a clear resemblance with 'Utba. (But) he said: "He is yours O 'Abd (b. Zam'a), for the child is to be attributed to one on whose bed it is born, and stoning for a fornicator. Sauda bint Zam'a, O you should observe veil from him." So he did not see Sauda at all. Muhammad b. Rumh did not make a mention (of the words): "O Abd." - Sahih:Muslim:1457a (islam)
-If we know the real father, why the child stays with the cuckold husband?
Chapter: The child is for the bed and suspicion must be avoided
A hadith like this is narrated on the authority of Ibn 'Uyaiyna and Ma'mar (and the words are):
The child is attributed to him on whose bed he is born; but they did not mention this:" For a fornicator there is stoning." - Sahih:Muslim:1457b (islam)
-Can the child be identify as the son or daughter of his real father, even though he is raised with his or her mother's husband?
Chapter: The child is for the bed and suspicion must be avoided
Abu Huraira (Allah be pleased with him) reported Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying:
The child is to be attributed to one on whose bed he is born, and for a fornicator there is stoning. - Sahih:Muslim:1458a (islam)
-Is it islamically hallal for this child to marry his or her biological sister (from his or her biological father)?
Chapter: At what age may a youth be listened to (i.e. quotation of the Hadith from a boy be acceptable)
Narrated Mahmud bin Rabi`a:
When I was a boy of five, I remember, the Prophet (ﷺ) took water from a bucket (used for getting water out of a well) with his mouth and threw it on my face. - Sahih:Al Bukhari:77 (islam)
-Did Mohamed split water and saliva to a young boy's face?
Chapter: Concerning the urine of an infant boy who is not yet eating solid food
Abu Samh said:
"I was a servant of the Prophet, and Hasan and Husain was brought to him and (the infant) urinated on his chest. They wanted to wash it, but the Messenger of Allah said: 'Sprinkle water on it, for the urine of a girl should be washed, but the urine of a boy should be sprinkled over with water.'" - Sahih:Ibn Majah:526 (islam)
-Why so much difference, between boy and girl, for the first just sprinkle some water on it and for the second wash it away?
Chapter: When A Boy Should Be Ordered To Offer As-Salat
Narrated As-Saburah:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Command a boy to pray when he reaches the age of seven years. When he becomes ten years old, then beat him for prayer. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:494 (islam)
-Is it physical beating?
- Who beats him?
- Is it lightly?
Chapter: When A Boy Should Be Ordered To Offer As-Salat
Narrated Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-'As:
The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: Command your children to pray when they become seven years old, and beat them for it (prayer) when they become ten years old; and arrange their beds (to sleep) separately. - Sahih:Abu Dawud:495 (islam)
-What will happen to a father who don't want to beat his son?
- Can you disobey to Mohamed without risking Hell (Quran 4:65)?
Chapter: Who Has More Right To Take The Child ?
'Amr b. Shu'aib on his father's authority said that his grandfather (Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-'As) reported:
A woman said: Messenger of Allah, my womb is a vessel to this son of mine, my breasts, a water-skin for him, and my lap a guard for him, yet his father has divorced me, and wants to take him away from me. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said: You have more right to him as long as you do not marry. - Hasan:Abu Dawud:2276 (islam)
-Is it possible for a woman to stay single (an Nasai 3213)?
- Are Islamic women allowed to live alone?
- If you remarry, do you lose your child to your husband?
- Is it applied today?
- Can you apply secular laws today without going against Mohamed and Allah?
- If you do so, are you going to Hell or Paradise?
[8]And when the girl [who was] buried alive is asked
[9]For what sin she was killed - Quran:At-Takwir 81:8:9 (islam)
-Is it a common argument for the Good of Islam?
- How come no real proofs are available outside Islamic texts?
- Is the Quran false?
Chapter: The boys attaining the age of puberty and their witness
Narrated Ibn `Umar:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) called me to present myself in front of him or the eve of the battle of Uhud, while I was fourteen years of age at that time, and he did not allow me to take part in that battle, but he called me in front of him on the eve of the battle of the Trench when I was fifteen years old, and he allowed me (to join the battle)." Nafi` said, "I went to `Umar bin `Abdul `Aziz who was Caliph at that time and related the above narration to him, He said, "This age (fifteen) is the limit between childhood and manhood," and wrote to his governors to give salaries to those who reached the age of fifteen. - Sahih:Al Bukhari:2664 (islam)
-Is it valid today?
- Can you call boy a man of 15 or more?
[13]Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
[14]Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell. - Bible:OT:Proverbs 23:13:14 (bible)
-Are we still beating our children today?
- Were God mistaken?
He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes. - Bible:OT:Proverbs 13:24 (bible)
-Does it mean if you love your children, you should beat them?
- How come every study today show the ineffectiveness of beating on children?
Chapter: Be like a merciful father to orphans
Asma' bint 'Ubayd said, "I said to Ibn Sirin, 'I have an orphan in my care.' He said, 'Treat him as you would treat your own child. Beat him as you would beat your own child.'" - Sahih:Adab:140 (islam)
Chapter: What Has Been About The Virtue Of Pleasing One's Parents
Abdullah bin Amr narrated that:
the Prophet said: "The Lord's pleasure is in the parent's pleasure, and the Lord's anger is in the parent's anger."(Hasan). - Hasan:Tirmidhi:1899 (islam)
-Does it mean Children have to please and fear their parents has if it was God?
- What if the parents are violent?
- What if the parents are pleased with questionable things?
- What if the parents are ok to kill homosexual or apostates?
- Can you always trust your parents?
